How to Write a Bereavement Sympathy Card

The purpose of sending a sympathy greeting card is, of course, to offer your condolences and sympathy to the person who has suffered a loss. We know it is the right thing to do, but many of us procrastinate because we don't know what to say and are fearful that we may write something inappropriate and make the grieving person feel worse. Do not hold back, though, because you are unable to say things perfectly as ones who have lost a loved one in death very much appreciate receiving a sympathy card and often read the sentiments offered again and again to receive comfort. What, though, can you write in a sympathy card that would be of benefit to the grieving person?

Things You'll Need

• Greeting card
• Pen

Instructions

1. Express your shared sadness and grief over the death of their loved one. You might say, "I share your sadness on the loss of your mother," or "I was so sorry to hear that you lost your father."

2. Offer to help in some way. You may wish to write, "Please know that I would like to help in some way during this difficult time." Then don't wait for the person to ask, simply show up and bring a meal, mow the grass, take out the trash. Simple household tasks can seem overwhelming when one is grieving.

3. Reassure the grieving one that you are available to listen when they feel ready. You could phrase it like this, "I care deeply for you and I am here whenever you would like to talk about Nancy and share our memories together." Then write down your telephone number and follow through.

4. Share a positive memory or thought about the deceased person. For example, "Jack was my favorite fishing partner...he was always the first to catch a fish and never let us forget it!! Going to the lake will not be the same without him."

Resources

• Gourmet Chocolate Gift Basket
• Sympathy Gift Basket