How to Love when hes not the one

By Katie6242002

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Did you ever find a man that was great that you couldnt find yourself intimate with?

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

  • courage
Step1
Finding the right guy is hard enough. Falling is love should be easy right?
What is the fine line between friendship, companionship and true love?
Step2
When you have found someone that worships all that is you and truly loves you how do you cope with the fact you are not attracted to him sexually?
Think of all the pros and cons.
pros
does he:
yell
work
help around the house
rub your back when not asked to
love you unconditionally
hit you
let you go to bed when the kids are still up
buy you flowers when its not a holiday
caress you when you look your worst

cons:
getting intimate
Step3
If the above describes your feelings, you are not alone. You stay becase he is great. You stay because he loves you. You force yourself to love back even though it is love its not the undying love you always dreamed of.
You stay because they are worse]
you stay because....
Step4
Think about all the positives and make yourself stay because eventually it will become love?

Tips & Warnings

  • Not for everyone
  • Never stay if abusive

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