How to Wait to Have Sex

Although society may have an increased focus on sex, waiting to have sex may be the personal decision that's best for you. Learn how to wait and not give in to the mounting pressures around you.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Establish your beliefs. Having clear reasons for waiting to have sex will help you remain focused on your goal. You will be faced with tough decisions and will need to be able to speak up for yourself without hesitation or reserve.
2. Hold tight to your established beliefs. This applies in situations of foreseen and unexpected temptation. Don't be swayed by kind words or promises. Remember that you will have to live with your decisions for the rest of your life.
3. Refrain from involving yourself in uncomfortable situations. Plan group outings and attend social events to take the pressure off spending time alone with your date. Avoid awkward situations such as spending the night alone with your partner.
4. Surround yourself with others that share your beliefs. This will help you keep your head straight and provide you with enjoyable activities. Peer pressure can be powerful motivation to give into sexual temptation so, avoid spending time with those who would delight in your failure.
5. Be honest about your choices. Let others know that you are to be taken seriously in your desire to wait to have sex. This applies to friends as well as your partner. Friendships and relationships built on respect will survive your decision to wait.
6. Demand that your significant other respect your choice.

Tips & Warnings

• Know that sexual activity is not a relationship requirement.
• Never compromise your beliefs to satisfy someone else.