How to Talk to Japanese Girls
Talking to Japanese girls or women of other Asian descent can be difficult at first. If they are new to the country, or have been raised in a traditionalist household, their customs and attitudes about things may be much different than yours.
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Instructions on Talking to Japanese Girls
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Talking to Japanese girls or women of other Asian descent can be difficult at first. If they are new to the country, or have been raised in a traditionalist household, their customs and attitudes about things may be much different than yours.
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Try to find out as much as you can about her background. Ask her questions, and listen attentively. Getting to know her will help you have the right words to say.
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Ask her how she feels about things, and really pay attention to her answers. Japanese girls may seem shy and submissive, but inside they have strong opinions and don’t appreciate being dismissed any more than other women do.
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Invite her to go out as friends first and ask permission before touching her in public - even if its just to hold her hand. Most Japanese take PDA very slowly.
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Tell her about yourself. She wants to get to know you as much as you want to get to know her. Don’t paint yourself as cooler, richer or more terrific than you really are - she will see through it and not be impressed.
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Tips & Warnings
Talk to her parents too - and be very respectful!. Dishonoring her parents is a sure way to fall out of her good graces; Japanese are serious about respecting their elders.
Don’t tell her you have a ‘thing’ for Japanese women. This depersonalizes her and makes her feel like she is just an Asian girl to you, and not a unique person.
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I believe talking to asian girls will be enjoyable.
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charlesfinley
Dec 30, 2010
Talking to a Japanese girl requires knowledge of the difference between "honne" and "tatemae." You need to be aware of when she is speaking from the heart or just being polite. There are ways to recognize this. Smash and JohnnyRocket wrote a book called "Japanese Girls The Guide" which has been invaluable for me while I'm in Japan. I spend a great deal of time on Japan forums as I love the culture and am learning the language, so I have evaluated many different sources. This is the best so far, it has helped me quite a bit. I really encourage everyone to go over and check it out. Japan is a wonderful country and the women are the most exotic in the world. -
peaceandharmony
Oct 05, 2010
Err, yes obviously. But also remember the english gentleman is polite in the extreme! In Japan no man, offers his seat to ladies on public transport, invites ladies first, tips his hat etc. (Habits ungratefully received by the UK feminatzi.) Most messages of respect to the parents of my Japanese partner - 3.5 years - were ignored. Most importance was placed on my employment status. But maybe this is a little too deep for the topic ... anyway even if she leaves me for Tokyo, she will always be TMBGITW (The Most Beautiful Girl In The World)
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akumaxkami
Aug 10, 2009
Here's an obvious idea: Be polite. Japanese place a high level of importance on politeness.
