How to Spice Up Your Sex

By Jeannie Kerns

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Spicing up your sex life is not something that will take a long time to accomplish. If you and your partner are willing to try new things, then these tips should bring "Vavoom" back in your sex life !

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

  • Sex toys
  • Sex videos
  • Lingerie
  • Lotion
  • Body massager
  • Open mind

How to Spice Up Your Sex

Step1
Learn to have an open mind when it comes to sex with your partner. This is the first step in adding spice to your sex life. Being closed up and boring will only decrease the excitement in your sex life.
Step2
Buy a few sex toys, and experiment with them on one another. You would be surprised what will happen when you one of you decides to bring a dildo, vibrator or even a blindfold into the equation.
Step3
Watch some good old fashion pornography together. There are so many different styles of pornography on the market these days that you can pick and choose basically any kind you would prefer to watch. Watching this together not only gives you great ideas, but it also makes the intensity of wanting to have sex very strong.
Step4
Massage one another down with hot oil or lotions. Now a days you can go to an adult novelty store and buy oils and lotions that smell and taste like basically every kind of fruit grown. You can even get chocolate tasting lotions and oils if your're not into the fruit ones.
Step5
Surprise your partner by coming out in the sexiest lingerie you can find. Doll yourself up as if you were going out on the town, except of course with less clothes. When you feel sexy about yourself and it shows, your partner senses this and reacts accordingly!
Step6
Bring another person into your sex life. This is for those who are open enough and can deal with their partner having sex with someone else other than yourself. Sex is all about enjoying yourself and pleasing each other to the fullest extent. Experiment with the different steps and you will see that your sex life will become a lot better in time.

Tips & Warnings

  • Do not push one another to try different things if one does not want to.
  • Try and be as open minded as possible.
  • Talk to one another about your fantasies.
  • Plan a weekend together alone and learn about one another's sexual desires.
  • Do not criticize each other.
  • Try out different positions, never stick to just one!
  • If you plan on bringing someone else in on your sexual adventure, be sure to always wear a condom!

Photo/Video Credit

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on 8/6/2008 Order your sex toys online to spice up your relationship with less embarrassment (though we feel they should not be an embarrassment or a taboo) at http://www.vibration-station.co.uk

Tam xx

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