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Step 1
Look towards the theme of your wedding. To name only a few possible motifs, is it traditional, modern, romantic or Victorian? After you label the theme that you have, then you have an idea of the general style of your gown as well.
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Step 2
Consider your height. If you are short, select a design and fabrics that do not bog you down. Textures that flow freely and a hemline that is no longer than floor-length are ideal. Feel free to find subtle ways to add vertical lines to the design of your gown, such as long, straight sleeves. Top off with a headpiece that adds height. If you are tall, on the other hand, and wish to disguise your height, simply add a little bit more bulk or a few horizontal lines to your ensemble. A little fullness to your skirt will do wonders.
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Step 3
Consider the shape of your figure. Check on areas that you consider problem spots so that you can divert attention away from them onto those parts of your body that you are proud of. For example, you may wish to conceal your belly so you would choose an empire-waist design; on the other hand, if you are proud of your creamy skin and bosom, you would select a low-cut neckline to show off your décolletage.
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Step 4
Do a fabric check. How do the textures of your choice skim your body? Do they give your dress a clingy and too-tight appearance? A flattering wedding dress makes you appear slender but does not squeeze, nor does it make you feel uncomfortable so that your movements are stiff and unnatural. The finish of the cloth you select also plays a vital role: Shiny material adds bulk, while matte ones help in your efforts to slenderize.
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Step 5
Think about color. You need not be limited to white. If you want to go beyond conventionally virginal, but still wish to appear soft, you have options. Very light pastels that almost appear white are an alternative. Variations of white, such as mother of pearl and ecru are another. You can also add a colored accent to a white gown via a ribbon expertly woven somewhere, such as around your waist.
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Step 6
Accessorize. Are you wearing a veil, a hat or both? Maybe you'd like to skip all other head gear in favor of a flower tucked skillfully into your updo. Is your grandma's antique brooch going to be pinned to your neckline? These may seem like little things, but accessories can make or break your look. They are just as much a part of your wedding outfit as your gown is. You will look your best with meaningful pieces that blend well with your overall appearance instead of stealing the spotlight.
