How to Read Guys' Minds
Are you dating a guy and trying to read his mind to find out what he is thinking? As a guy, I can tell you that we really aren't that complicated. Quite often us guys wear our hearts and our emotions in general on our sleeves. If you pay attention to us, without overanalyzing the situation or conversation you will have no problem figure out what us guys are thinking and "reading our mind".
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How To Read A Guy's Mind
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Do not make us more complex and complicated than we are. Most guys will tell you what they are thinking. In general we are not the type to hold our feelings in. If you think the guy you are with is "acting" a certain way and he feels complete different, I have one piece of advice for you. Drop that assumption. We aren't that complicated. Take us guys for face value and you will be "reading our mind" rather well.
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Interviewing a guy with a list of questions is not going to help you understand what he is thinking. The reality is that it will probably just annoy the male that you are asking. Instead of getting information to help you "read his mind", you are more likely going to push him into closing down and becoming harder to read.
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If you really want to know something, ask us. Most guys are more than willing to answer a question. You could say that sometimes we provide too much of an answer. If you think something is bothering a guy, just say "are you okay?" or "is something wrong". If we say "nothing", then remember step two again. There's a good chance nothing is wrong and interrogating us will not provide any information for you.
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Ask us questions when we are doing an activity we enjoy together. If we are having fun, us guys are much more likely to open up and answer questions. We will start to let our guard done and us guys are more likely to give you the information you are seeking when we are enjoying ourselves. If the questions come in a fun setting, that is when we don't even realize you are in effect interviewing us to get information you want.
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Do not jump to conclusions. Too often when you try to read a guy's mind, and then react based on what you think you have picked up on it makes the situation worse. Once again, remember that most guys are in the end very simple. The fewer assumptions you make about what we are thinking, the fewer mistakes you will make in your attempts to read a guy's mind.
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Tips & Warnings
Put us guys in a setting where we let our guard down and you are likely to find out much more about our thoughts than you could ever imagine.
Nobody enjoys being interviewed or drilled with questions. If you can't read a guy's mind, don't worry about it at that time. Chances are if you stop trying so hard, you will find out what we are thinking.
