How to Be a Sexy Alpha Female

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By FirstLoveYou
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Do you want to be the hot, sexy woman that makes everyone drool? Follow these simple steps and you will be irresistibly attractive.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

Self-awareness
Courage

Step 1

1. Learn how to dress for men.

If you look at yourself in the mirror and say “I look good”, CHANGE your clothes until you can say “I look hot”. Stop dressing for other women! Why wear a sweater and jeans when you can wear a dress with heels?

You don’t want to look trashy, but you DO want to allude to your femininity and sexuality. It's a very fine line to walk, but you can pull it off.

Just remember that you have to be sexy in your own eyes or else no one will get that vibe from you.
Step 2

2. Find your biggest contradictions and work them.

Think Marilyn Monroe. A sexy little girl.

I am shy and confident. That’s my contradiction. Your contradiction can be anything. Start looking at your personality and you will easily pick up on two seemingly opposite traits. A lot of times we try to cover our quirks. Accept yours and show them off because it gives you an air of depth. A walking contradiction is intensely sexually exciting.
Step 3

3. Take care of yourself first.

Yeah, I know... people tell you that all the time. But it’s absolutely the truth. Refuse to put yourself down. Refuse to talk to yourself in a criticizing tone. Refuse to disrupt your peace of mind with negative thinking and negative situations.

Take care of your body. Yes, work out and eat right. You will feel better about yourself because your health is one thing you have a lot of control over.

Take care of your mind. Stop engaging in mindless activities. Your brain is like a muscle. It needs to be used. Read something. Experience something. Learn something!

Take care of your relationships… both with others and yourself. Relate ONLY with those people who enhance your life in some way. If they don’t, cut them off. And your relationship with YOU is the most important. Treat yourself lovingly. Give yourself time to relax, refresh and renew. Allow yourself to daydream. This will build self-love and that alone is so sexy.
Step 4

4. Exercise your sense of humor.

Laugh at least 5 times a day. Laugh at things that “should” be serious (even about yourself). When you laugh, you draw people to you. It’s almost like the endorphins are contagious. Having a sense of humor is sexy.
Step 5

5. Get in touch with yourself sexually.

Yes, enjoy your body. Enjoy sex. Take time to massage your own body and find out how you like to be touched. A woman who enjoys herself sexually is like a MAGNET.
Step 6

6. Flirt. With. Everyone.

Guys, girls, waiters, mechanics, old ladies crossing the street. (Ha!) Be flirtatious. Make it a part of your personality.
Step 7

7. Decide to love yourself.

Make the choice. Right now. This moment. When you love yourself first, everything else falls into place. You become incredibly sexy with this one simple tip.