Things You'll Need:
- A couple of hours a week
- A babysitter if you have children
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Step 1
Plan romantic dates with your wife that do not involve children, friends or family. Take the time to plan the dates ahead of time. Make restaurant reservations at your favorite local restaurant. Order movie tickets online in advance, or theater tickets. Read the local arts calendar to find outdoor concerts, art shows, rock concerts, or other local events the two you of you can enjoy together.
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Step 2
Ask your wife out on a date. Asking her out is romantic and will remind her of the early days when you were courting. It is a romantic gesture that she will appreciate. The best part is, you know she will say yes. Use creative methods to ask your wife out on a date. If she works on a computer all day, send her an email and ask her out on the date. Or send her a sweet text message asking her out on the date.
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Step 3
Remember to bring your wife a single red rose or a bouquet of flowers like you did when you were first dating.
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Step 4
Treat your wife with common courtesies that you used when you were first dating. Think about how you would treat your wife now if you just met. Open the door for her when you go out on a date, and when you return home. Pull out her chair when you eat out at a restaurant. When walking with your wife, gently place your hand on her lower back when you are walking next to her. Also hold her hand at the dinner table or in the movie theater.
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Step 5
Flirt with your wife and make light conversation on your date. Flirt with your words and your eyes. Touch her hand, arm or legs frequently during the date. Try to talk about future plans, and share your common interests in conversation. Kiss her at the door before you both go in the house.
Comments
amylaine said
on 9/24/2008 Great advice.