How to discover your life purpose in about 20 minutes

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How do you discover your real purpose in life? I mean the real reason why you’re here at all — the very reason you exist.Here’s a story about Bruce Lee which sets the stage for this little exercise. A master martial artist asked Bruce to teach him everything Bruce knew about martial arts. Bruce held up two cups, both filled with liquid. “The first cup,” said Bruce, “represents all of your knowledge about martial arts. The second cup represents all of my knowledge about martial arts. If you want to fill your cup with my knowledge, you must first empty your cup of your knowledge.” If you want to discover your true purpose in life, you must first empty your mind of all the false purposes you’ve been taught (including the idea that you may have no purpose at all).So how to discover your purpose in life? While there are many ways to do this, some of them fairly involved, here is one of the simplest that anyone can do. The more open you are to this process, and the more you expect it to work, the faster it will work for you. But not being open to it or having doubts about it or thinking it’s an entirely idiotic and meaningless waste of time won’t prevent it from working as long as you stick with it — again, it will just take longer to converge.Give it a shot!

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

  • PC/Laptop
  • Word processor
  • Pen & paper
  • Consistency
  • Determination
  • Positive attitude
  • Concentration

Step1
Step 1 Take out a blank sheet of paper or open up a word processor where you can type (I prefer the latter because it’s faster).
Step2
Purpose of life Write at the top, “What is my true purpose in life?”
Step3
Great ideas Write an answer (any answer) that pops into your head. It doesn’t have to be a complete sentence. A short phrase is fine.
Step4
Repeat step 3 until you write the answer that makes you cry. This is your purpose.
Step5
Searching ideas! That’s it. It doesn’t matter if you’re a counselor or an engineer or a bodybuilder. To some people this exercise will make perfect sense. To others it will seem utterly stupid. Usually it takes 15-20 minutes to clear your head of all the clutter and the social conditioning about what you think your purpose in life is. The false answers will come from your mind and your memories. But when the true answer finally arrives, it will feel like it’s coming to you from a different source entirely.
Step6
For those who are very entrenched in low-awareness living, it will take a lot longer to get all the false answers out, possibly more than an hour. But if you persist, after 100 or 200 or maybe even 500 answers, you’ll be struck by the answer that causes you to surge with emotion, the answer that breaks you. If you’ve never done this, it may very well sound silly to you. So let it seem silly, and do it anyway.
Step7
As you go through this process, some of your answers will be very similar. You may even re-list previous answers. Then you might head off on a new tangent and generate 10-20 more answers along some other theme. And that’s fine. You can list whatever answer pops into your head as long as you just keep writing.
Step8
At some point during the process (typically after about 50-100 answers), you may want to quit and just can’t see it converging. You may feel the urge to get up and make an excuse to do something else. That’s normal. Push past this resistance, and just keep writing. The feeling of resistance will eventually pass.
Step9
You may also discover a few answers that seem to give you a mini-surge of emotion, but they don’t quite make you cry — they’re just a bit off. Highlight those answers as you go along, so you can come back to them to generate new permutations. Each reflects a piece of your purpose, but individually they aren’t complete. When you start getting these kinds of answers, it just means you’re getting warm. Keep going.
Step10
Got the purpose of life! When you find your own unique answer to the question of why you’re here, you will feel it resonate with you deeply. The words will seem to have a special energy to you, and you will feel that energy whenever you read them.

Tips & Warnings

  • It’s important to do this alone and with no interruptions. If you’re a nihilist, then feel free to start with the answer, “I don’t have a purpose,” or “Life is meaningless,” and take it from there. If you keep at it, you’ll still eventually converge.
  • Discovering your purpose is the easy part. The hard part is keeping it with you on a daily basis and working on yourself to the point where you become that purpose.
  • If you’re inclined to ask why this little process works, just put that question aside until after you’ve successfully completed it. Once you’ve done that, you’ll probably have your own answer to why it works. Most likely if you ask 10 different people why this works (people who’ve successfully completed it), you’ll get 10 different answers, all filtered through their individual belief systems, and each will contain its own reflection of truth.
  • Obviously, this process won’t work if you quit before convergence. I’d guesstimate that 80-90% of people should achieve convergence in less than an hour. If you’re really entrenched in your beliefs and resistant to the process, maybe it will take you 5 sessions and 3 hours, but I suspect that such people will simply quit early (like within the first 15 minutes) or won’t even attempt it at all.
  • Don't be a nihilist.

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Badgirliam

Badgirliam said

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on 7/21/2008 i fell asleep. is that my purpose in life? ha, i hope not! although. i am usually sleep deprived. oh well, i must be doing what i'm meant too. :)

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on 7/12/2008 Very wonderful......... some of the reasons I am here have already left this plane but I know I have a lot more more reasons!

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on 7/11/2008 Excellent article! I am amazed that you don't have a zillion comments! Great article!!!!

AbbyNormal

AbbyNormal said

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on 7/6/2008 Good article! I know my purpose in life!

RickBasset

RickBasset said

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on 7/3/2008 I think It may be time to give this a try! Thanks.

Peace :~)

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