How to Be More Likable

By IcyCucky

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I have met many people that I like instantly. Whether it is their bubbling personality, or their laughter, or just their smile, I like them automatically! Do you ever wonder why we like them right away? It is their charisma, and their inner beauties that we are attracted to.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

  • A desire to develop growth
  • A wish to change
  • Determination to be better

Step1
Be opened with your gestures. Folding your arms is a sign of unwelcome to others.
Step2
"Smile, and the world smiles with you!" This is very true. People are often attracted to happier people. No-one wants to socialize with a grumpy person.
Step3
Leave the gossip behind. Interesting conversation gathers a larger crowd than the "such and such did this, do that..."
Step4
Listen attentively! If you pay attention to other while he/she talks, it shows that you care about what they say.
Step5
Show your appreciation. Gratitude goes a long way! Remember to thank them for even the smallest thing they do, such as offering you a drink.
Step6
Be considerate! Anticipating on other people's needs, and offer help! This means to help them carrying a chair, or take a bag of grocery from their hand, or just open the door.

Tips & Warnings

  • Smile
  • Show your happy side
  • Be kind
  • Offer help
  • Be grateful
  • No gossip
  • Avoid putting other people down
  • Control your anger or temper
  • Leave bad language out

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bali74

bali74 said

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on 6/13/2008 Icy, really good. Small things put together so finely, very inspiring..

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on 6/7/2008 Icy, you are always on top of things. Great advice, as usual.

Thanks and take care.

NinjaBilby

NinjaBilby said

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on 6/6/2008 Thank you.

amandaford

amandaford said

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on 6/6/2008 Important article. If a person follows these tips, not only will he or she be more likable, but will also make others feel inspired and loved.

amylaine

amylaine said

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on 6/5/2008 Great Article. A smile and a few kind words can go along way.

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