How to Find a Cotillion

A cotillion offers children of all ages lessons in social behavior and etiquette, all in a formal dancing atmosphere. Much more than dancing lessons, cotillions use dancing to teach proper manners, how to dress and how to communicate effectively. Learn how to find a cotillion in your area.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Know that cotillions are usually programs that require at least 2 years of lessons. Dancing is only one area of focus at a cotillion. Manners, proper dress for special occasions and how to engage others in conversation are other topics covered. Parents are shown their child's progress through formal dances.

2. Contact the National League of Junior Cotillions for chapters in your area. The NLJC is the premier group in the U.S. for cotillion organization and information. Based in North Carolina, the NLJC offers a specific manners-oriented curriculum for children in Pre-K through grade 8 (see Resources below).

3. Apply to become a National League of Junior Cotillions Director for your area. If you can't find a cotillion in your area, you can start one. Fill out the application form on the NLJC website (see Resources below). If selected, you receive instruction on how to teach the curriculum of the NLJC.

Tips & Warnings

• Search for cotillion listings in the Yellow Pages of your local phone directory. If you can't find any listings, check for etiquette schools that offer the same type of instruction.

Resources

• The NLJC website has a page to search for local chapters.
• The website of the NLJC has an application for directors.