How to Release a Prodigal Child

A prodigal child is one who rejects your family and faith. Some may be secretive or unreachable, while others get involved with alcohol, drugs or other harmful lifestyles. It's hard to release a prodigal child. Many families keep trying to control the child or get him to change, but at some point the best thing to do is let go and let a higher power to take over.

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

1. Make a conscious decision to let your child go. Detach yourself from the child. Continue to pray for him and show him love, but don't intervene unless he asks for your help.
2. Remind your child that you love her and value her as a person, but that you don't accept her lifestyle. Leave subtle hints like notes to remind her that you love her.
3. Allow yourself to grieve. Encourage your spouse and family members to do so, too. Don't bottle up your emotions. It can lead to unhealthy addictions or long-term depression.
4. Look for a support group in your community, faith organization or online.
5. Be honest with others and let them know what you're going through. Don't be ashamed of having a problem that you can't solve.
6. Spend some time each day doing things that bring joy. Turn to your faith and spirituality. Find new hobbies or objects that make you happy.
7. Prepare for an eventual reconciliation. Be ready to listen to your child and find ways to work together at acceptance and reunion. Make a list of your expectations and requirements for a reconciliation.

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