How to Be Consistent With Child Discipline

Consistent discipline is key when it comes to getting good behavior from your child. Good discipline should not be based on your mood, your stress level or the time of the day. Help your child know what is expected. Be consistent with discipline and get better behavior from your child as a result.

Instructions

1. Set rules that you will enforce on a regular basis. If you don't want your child's shoes on the couch, enforce this rule all of the time. Don't make special exceptions. Inconsistent discipline sends mixed messages to the child.

2. Keep your promises. If you promise a consequence or reward for certain behavior, stick to it. Your child learns that your word is good and you build trust this way. He also understands that if he breaks a rule, he will deal with the consequences. Likewise, he will be consistently rewarded for good behavior.

3. Resist the urge to bend the rules. Children are very cute but that should not effect consistent discipline. Along the same lines, don't be swayed when your child is whining or throwing a tantrum. Stand more firm in these situations to maintain consistency.

4. Develop routines. Establishing set routines for meal time, bath time and bedtime helps your child know what to expect and what's expected of her. Avoid power struggles by keeping routines consistent.

5. Keep your cool. Firm, clear and consistent discipline means maintaining an even keel. Don't react emotionally to your child's misbehaviors. State the rules clearly and firmly administer the consequences. Yelling and screaming tends to escalate any situation.

Tips & Warnings

• Set a few simple rules that are realistic for your child's age.

• Ignore minor misbehaviors. No child is perfect. Choose your battles and allow room for minor infractions.