How to Express Commitment to One's Mate

Whether you're in a new relationship or need to establish your trustworthiness in an older one, express your commitment to your mate with gestures to make her feel secure, appreciated and loved. Consider these big and small ways to display your dedication.

Instructions

1. Place your mate first above all others. Show your loyalty by defending her if someone questions her motives or character, for example. Back her up in an argument with friends. Opt to see her favorite play on Friday night instead of going to watch the game with the guys.

2. Be completely honest. Show him that you can express your feelings openly and rely on him for support and reassurance. Also let him know that you can be trusted if he wants to discuss his fears, needs and frustrations. Demonstrate commitment by accepting each other's faults and silly habits.

3. Wear a ring. Even if you're not married, you can wear a symbol of your commitment. Demonstrate your togetherness in other ways like taking her hand or putting your arm around her, particularly if other interested men and women are around.

4. Take an interest in what your mate loves. If you have different tastes in movies, for example, alternate who selects the DVDs or chooses what you go out to see on date night. Learn the art of compromise to show how willing you are to make the other person happy.

5. Treat your mate with respect, even when she's not around. For example, when you're out with friends, stop yourself from flirting with and ogling other women. Remember that whatever you do or say will have a way of getting back to her.