How to Explore a Lover's Body

Society may strive for equality but when it comes to sexuality, everyone is different. Okay there some basic similarities obviously, but sex is so much more than mere physiology. Sex is about discovery and people should explore a lover's body to endeavor to find what gives them and the surveyor the most pleasure.

Instructions

1. Have your lover strip off all their clothes and lie down on the bed or the surface of your choice. Either you can have them lying on their stomach or back, either way is fine to start. You can also undress them yourself if that is the preference. Removing the clothes yourself can heighten the sensations for both of you.

2. Touch your lover gently on the face or back of the neck depending on their position and slowly move the hand down their body. Make sure to vary the pressure of the touch. Take special note of any reactions when you touch specific parts of the body. Some people have areas of the body that even they never knew were so excitable to the touch.

3. Move your hands, tongue or whichever body part you want use, slowly down your lover's body. Make sure to linger in specific areas that arouse your lover. Do not skip any part of the body as your hands travel down the skin.

4. Ask your lover periodically how they feeling. Communication is important when you explore another's body. Some people have a tough time expressing what makes them fool good sexually so take time to elicit a response.

5. Take as much time as you need. Do not rush this exploration as it can take a long time to figure out just which places on your lover's body excite them and you the most.

6. Turn your lover's body over and begin the exploration anew on the other side. Follow the previous steps and repeat as much as possible.

7. Use oils and powders to heighten the experience. These items will add to the sensations of the exploration.