How to Keep a Man Guessing

Keeping the spark alive in a relationship requires work and dedication to fostering a sense of mystery and allure. Men are more complex creatures than they seem to be so it's important to keep them constantly wondering what's going to happen next. A sense of mystique and enigma will help spice up any relationship. Following are some steps to follow to help you keep a man guessing and keep the flame burning in your relationship.

Instructions

1. Try to maintain a positive outlook in your relationship and exude a sense of appreciation and confidence in the strength of your bond. Understand that men (just like women) want to be appreciated and positively regarded so its best to cut down on criticisms and negativity to keep interest alive.

2. Surprise the man every once in a while with a romantic dinner or night on the town that is your treat. Many men appreciate being wined and dined just as women do and they will find it a welcome reprieve from their normal schedule. Flirt like you used to when you were first dating.

3. Complete something or learn to do something that you would normally count on a man to do, this will make them wonder if you really need them or if you just make them think that for the sake of their masculinity. Learn to do something masculine or outside of your normal range of activities to keep them wondering what else you have up your sleeve.

4. Tease them a bit, including sexually and relationally. Give them just enough affection so that they'll want a bit more and then pull back a bit, this keeps the relationship dynamic interesting and exciting.

5. Care for yourself and your appearance. Take a day and spend it on yourself and your beauty regimen (whatever that may be) this will help the man to see that you respect yourself and keep them physically attracted to you.

Tips & Warnings

• Have a night where you plan for time with just you and your mate (hire a babysitter, turn off the phone, etc). Spend that time just getting reacquainted with your mate.

• Watch their favorite T.V. show or sporting event that you normally hate with them, this will certainly confuse them a bit and inspire a bit of curiosity about what else you might secretly like.

• Tell them a secret that you haven't told them, this will help them to feel like they are constantly getting to know you and keep them engaged in your relationship.