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Step 1
Use sex toys in the bedroom. Sex toys can let you experiment with your boyfriend or girlfriend on a whole different and intimate level. You can buy a variety of toys in sex stores and online; experiment to find the right ones for you.
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Step 2
Dress up. Maybe you have always been attracted to a police man's uniform or a French maid dress. You can rent a costume for a night or a weekend and surprise your partner. You can also find inexpensive costume items to buy at party or costume supply stores.
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Step 3
Use your imagination. Try to be inventive and create sexy scenarios. Role play with each other. One of you can be the submissive one and one can be the dominating partner.
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Step 4
Rub on scented lotions, oils and massage gels. These lubricating items can help if you are using fantasy during sex. One of you can be the masseuse and one can be the client that needs to be massaged.
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Step 5
Play games. You can play many sexy games in the bedroom. Some board games require both partners to become imaginative and creative. Let your inhibitions go and explore each other.
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Step 6
Pretend that you are both celebrities and ask your partner to dress like someone you find a sex symbol. Wear wigs, accessories and clothing that resembles the sexy celebrity.
