How to Help Children Cope With Death

Losing a loved one is hard enough for anyone especially children.

A death in the family is very sad especially if there are children who were close to the deceased family member. If not dealt with right this tragedy can have long term effects on the child.

Instructions

How to Help Children Cope With Death

1. Talk with your child about what happened make sure to let her know that it is not her fault. Encourage your child to talk to others to especially friends at school and whomever she feels the comfortable with. If your child is able to talk, this will make her feel better because she will not be holding all of those feelings inside.

2. Look into counseling and even therapy if your child is having a very difficult time dealing with death. This occurs a lot when the deceased is really close to the child. It could be a parent, grandparent, sibling, or even a really good friend.

3. Write a letter to the deceased. This will help your child to say the things he wasn't able to say before the loved one passed away. He can talk about anything he wants to, whatever will make him feel better. When the letter is done you can put it in a safe place or even mail it to the recipient.

4. Ask your minister for help if possible the one that presided over the funeral. Your minister will come out to your house if needed and talk to your child with you. Having a minister is important. She can offer a better understanding of death and it might be easier for your child to cope with the whole process. There may also be teachers at your child's school who are trained to help in these situations.

Tips & Warnings

• Most States offer counseling for kids to help out usually for free or low cost.

• Keep talking and helping out your child so that he does not become depressed.