How to Become a Player

Become a player and have your pick from the pool.

With all the people looking for a loving, meaningful relationship, it is easy to forget about those looking for meaningless dating fun. This type of person is called a player. A player is someone who plays women or men like a fiddle. It is quite easy for them to attract the opposite sex and get dates, but they cannot be pinned down. Often, they will have several dates in one week without blinking an eye. Players aren't fans of commitment and they typically just date for fun or sex.

Difficulty:

Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. Go out to a club or bar. Typically, women at clubs are single and looking, and you might find one who will fall for you.

2. Seek out an attractive woman and approach her. Hold your head up, pull your shoulders back and purposefully walk toward her. Smile and introduce yourself. Tell her you noticed how beautiful she was from across the room and just had to introduce yourself.

3. Buy her a drink and talk with her for 10 minutes. Buying her a drink and talking to her shows her that you are genuinely interested. Only talk for 10 minutes, though, to leave her wanting more. This also leaves you more time to talk with other women.

4. Ask for her phone number or email address. In this case, emails are fine because you don't want anything serious from her. Make sure you have a pen handy.

5. Move on to the next attractive woman you see. Your goal is to get as many phone numbers as possible. Players don't get emotionally involved. The more choices you have, the less likely you will be to lose your head and heart.

6. Call two or three of your choices the next day. You want the women to think you are completely interested in them by calling right away. Set up a date for the current week with all of them.

7. Keep conversation casual, flirty and sexy on your date. When you get to her door at the end of the night, give her a goodnight kiss. If you enjoyed your time, call her again, but this time wait four or five days.

Tips & Warnings

• Have confidence. Know that if one woman doesn't like you, move on to the next. It doesn't really matter because you aren't in the game for love. You're in it for fun.

• Don't move on to another girl in eye-shot of the girls you have previously approached.