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How to Get a Woman In the Mood

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By Katie Gatto
eHow Contributing Writer
(4 Ratings)

So you want a night of hot passion with the special lady in your life. You better know how to get her in the mood first; otherwise, you will be rejected. This piece shows you how to get her there, while still being polite and making sure that everyone has a good time.

Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • A good attitude
  • Respect

    In the Mood

  1. Step 1

    Make sure she wants to be in the mood. There are going to be times when it is just not a good time. Periods of extreme stress or turmoil in her life will not put her in the mood. During those times, be kind and a supportive person. Also, wait a respectful amount of time before you attempt to make love. Wait a few dates at least.

  2. Step 2

    Make her feel good. Use a comfortable setting, sincere compliments and generally relaxed demeanor to make her feel at home. Don't leer or grab at things.

  3. Step 3

    Make your intentions known in a civil way. I know you want to jump on her and rip those clothes off, but you have to be sure she wants you to or the only thing you may be getting is a free ride in a police car and sexual assault charges. At this stage, the most extreme you are allowed to take the proposition is, "I would like to spend the night with you." Save explicit comments for another time.

  4. Step 4

    Once you have an indication of consent (and not before) stroke an exposed part of her skin lightly, begin to kiss.

  5. Step 5

    Make love. This part is freestyle, as long as you are both enjoying it.

Tips & Warnings
  • Feel her out for pacing. Don't try to speed it up, or you risk summary rejection.
  • Always use safer sex methods.
  • Someone who is impaired can not give consent legally.
  • Remember the age of consent where you live.

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