How to Enjoy Tantric Sex

Tantric sex is an experience sort of like a dance, if you will. A certain flow where two bodies become one, a union of sprits connecting. This lovemaking is very expressive and intimate. This experience teaches lovers how to extend the peak of their sexual ecstasy bringing it to an entire new level.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

• A partner you feel comfortable with and trust
• an open mind
• patience

1. Create a relaxing and romantic atmosphere. It should feel warm and inviting. Light some candles, add some fresh flowers, hang some exotic artwork, play soft music, and dim the lighting. You should feel comfortable and at ease.
2. Dress provocatively or wear nothing at all.......
3. Connect with your lover by touching and communicating to eachother what feels good.
4. Use breathing techniques. Sit quietly facing each other. Rest your hands on your knees with your palms facing up or you can also hold hands. As you gaze into your partner's eyes, take soft deep breaths. Keep your eyes open. This may feel awkward at first ... but eye contact is essential creating intimacy. Begin to breathe at the same pace, bringing air slowly in through your nose and exhaling through your mouth. Maintain eye contact while you breathe together.
5. Use props. Oils, blind folds, whipped cream or honey can be used for adding erotica and sensuality.
6. Keep it slow. Moving slow helps maintain control of orgasms.
7. Remain calm and relaxed. resist the urge to breath quickly.
8. Don't be distracted. Since desire can be cut off by fear, guilt, and stress people often need to concentrate on feeling rather than thinking when making love.
9. Remember intimacy leads to great love making. Moving the energy of orgasm through physical channels creates sensations of ecstasy throughout the body and enhancing over all good health.

Tips & Warnings

• Tantra does not promise instant results, it takes time and should be dealt with patience and respect. For couples who wish to enrich their relationship not just their sex life. This practice can release positive energy for filling the relationship with harmony and increasing intimacy over all.