Things You'll Need:
- Insurance company contact information
- Phone
- Phone book
- Computer with Internet connection
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Step 1
Contact your insurance company and request a referral to a marriage/divorce counselor in your area. Counselors are trained in helping both couples and individuals determine if divorce is the right option for them. Depending on your situation, you may want to attend the counseling sessions alone or with your spouse. If you are considering leaving your spouse and they are unaware of your feelings, you may want to start by attending the counseling sessions alone. The counselor will be able to help you work through your feelings and determine if divorce is right.
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Step 2
Browse the business listings in your phone book to look for a divorce support group in your area. Although you are not currently in the divorce process, meeting with individuals who have been through a divorce can help you in deciding whether divorce is right for your situation. Call the support group contact and explain your situation as some groups may only be open to individuals who are either currently going through the divorce process or who are actually divorced.
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Step 3
Visit a divorce support message board to read about others who are in your situation. Not everyone who thinks about divorce actually determines that it is the right choice. Reading information from others will help you in making your decision.
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Step 4
Plan a time to sit down with your spouse, without any outside interruptions, to discuss your relationship. If you are unhappy, your spouse may have the same feelings, and it may be easily rectified. Open communication is one of the most important parts of determining if a divorce is right for you.
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Step 5
Discuss your feelings with close friends and/or family. Opening up to your family will allow them to provide valuable insight to your situation. Since divorce is something that should never be taken lightly, it is important to utilize all of the resources that you have available prior to making a decision.






















