How to Tell If Someone Likes You
It would be great if the person you are attracted to would just send out some sort of physical sign to say, "I like you." Then you could skip the insecurity of wondering and the torture of waiting and just approach the cutie directly. Well, you are in luck. Anthropologists and psychologists agree that people do exhibit physical signs and body language to communicate attraction and interest in another person. Now all you have to do is learn this unspoken language of attraction. Some sure-fire ways can help you tell if the hottie you have your eye on likes you too.
Instructions
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Note the distance between you when you are together. Every person requires a certain amount of personal space to be comfortable. If a person likes you, he will lean toward you and occupy your personal space. He will also allow you to come into his personal space without cringing or moving away from you. It is the subconscious' way of saying, "I want to be close to you."
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Gaze into her eyes. Science has shown that when people see something they like, the pupils automatically dilate. Blinking is another key. A person will blink faster in the presence of someone without realizing it to indicate attraction.
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Look down at his feet. If his toes are turned inward in that awkward pigeon-style, he likes you and may even be a little intimidated by you.
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Pay attention to her lips. Not only will she be smiling at you a lot, but her lips will actually become redder and she may even be biting at them and licking them more without realizing it.
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Watch his posture. If he likes you, chances are he will stand up straight, bow out his chest and even lift his shoulders to show his masculinity while also revealing his openness to you.
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Tips & Warnings
These signs apply to men as well as women.
Both men and women will also preen more frequently in the presence of someone they like. If he straightens his tie and touches his beard a lot, then he probably likes you and is feeling a little nervous. If she tosses or twirls her hair and checks her makeup frequently, then she is attracted to you.
Another guaranteed sign that someone likes you is when he goes out of the way to be around you or to spend time with you.
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