How to Date Someone in the Military
Dating someone in the military is always interesting, because that person has been to different places and is always full of stories about the locales he's visited. But dating someone in the military can also be difficult if you aren't used to being apart from someone for extended periods of time. Here are some tips for getting the most from the experience.
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Understanding dating and the military
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When you're dating someone in the military, it takes a lot to really understand what they go through. You have to realize that dating someone in the service is a commitment in itself.
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You will have to be patient, because snail mail and even email can be slow. (Conversely, make sure to span out your letters so that you won't run out of things to say!)
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Fill your letters with details from home; soldiers want to read about such matters to take their minds off combat and other hardships they're experiencing. Ask how they're feeling and what's been happening to them. But if you ask where they're located, it's likely they won't be able to tell you for security reasons.
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Find out what a soldier can receive in the mail that will not compromise individual and unit security.Consider making and sending a care package full of their favorite snacks or personal items, since some places overseas charge a premium for items that are manufactured in the United States. Include some photos of yourself and other loved ones; it keeps a soldier's spirits up to knowing that a part of home is with her. Deployments can last for months and even years, so even a simple care package is the best way to make a soldier feel special.
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Use furlough time wisely, because soldiers don't get a lot of time off, and they will also want to have some time for their family and friends. So be considerate of others' time as well.
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Tips & Warnings
Someone who is experienced in long-distance dating will be best equipped to handle dating someone in the military.
