How to Have an Affair with Your Spouse

Do you want a spicy love life with lots of variety? Do you miss the days when you couldn't wait to be together? Here is how to have an affair with your spouse.

Things You'll Need

• You and your spouse
• A desire to strengthen your marriage
• A little creative thinking

Instructions

Date Night?

1. Make a date with each other. Among all the other things you may be doing, nothing is as important as taking some time together for just the two of you. You schedule soccer games, work, child care, school plays and other activities, so why not show one another how much you matter to each other?

2. Arrange for child care. This can be a hired sitter from the neighborhood, a relative, or another couple with young children who are willing to trade nights with you so that each couple gets a little time off.

3. Set the mood. Whether you go out or stay in, set a romantic mood. Play soft, relaxing music. Simmer some star anise, cinnamon sticks and cloves in a potpourri pot. Light candles or lower the lights. Buy each other flowers, and sprinkle the petals in a path to the bedroom.

4. Enjoy one another. Make sure you let your spouse know how important he or she is in your life, and that you find him or her attractive and desirable.

5. Make sure to hold a date night often, and keep that spark going!