How to Break Up with Someone

Breaking up with somebody is never easy when you want to put their feelings first. There are a few things to keep in mind in order for the breakup to go as smoothly as possible. While it's very unlikely you can break up with somebody without hurting their feelings, you can make it a bit easier for them by what you say.

Instructions

1. Meet the person you're going to break up with in person. No matter what, they are going to feel rejected even if you have only been dating for a couple of weeks. If you break up via letter, email, or phone then it only shows them that you really don't even care or respect them.

2. Talk about the concerns you've had regarding the relationship and why the break up is necessary. Be honest with them when you explain your feelings about the relationship and why it needs to end.

3. Mention the person's good qualities or what you enjoyed about the relationship. Always try and balance the negatives with some positives. This may help the other person see that they do have great things to offer somebody else.

4. Assess the relationship and explain why you are breaking up with the person. However, don't make it seem like it's their entire fault, even if it is. Think about how you would feel if your positions were reversed. Remain confident in what you say but don't avoid topics that were influential in your decision to break up.

5. Wish the person good luck and leave on good terms. If the breakup has been done in a tasteful manner, both parties may feel better within a couple of days. The worse a break up is, the more likely it is to linger and make it harder for both of you to move on.