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Step 1
Take your time. A woman loves for a man to take his time. Notice her posture. Observe her movements. Listen to her breathing. Position yourself next to her in a way that allows you to utilize both hands, but understand that only one hand will actually be at "work." The first step, basically, is to receive every and all messages through her body language and non-verbal candor. She wants you to read her and create your own personal script.
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Step 2
Next, neutralize one hand by either stroking her hair, supporting the small of her back, or even interlacing your fingers with hers. Depending upon how you're positioned with her, keep one hand neutralized yet in contact with her at all times. Use your other hand and softly caress the outline of her body, slowly. She's beginning to trust you and learn your methods and enjoy the way you are discovering her.
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Step 3
Next, caress her manubrium only a couple of inches south from her clavicle, but stay away from her breasts. The manubrium is the center bone that connects our ribs and chest plate. Spending some tome there is a wonderful way to communicate to her that you have self control.
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Step 4
Note: nothing will turn a woman off more than a guy who grabs and chugs on her jugs. Slowly glide your hands around her breasts and allow the tips of your fingers to slightly touch her nipple. Notice her breathing. Notice her movements. Notice her mouth. Kiss her slowly and pay attention to her reaction. Does she clutch with her hands? Does she assert passion with the entry of her tongue and strength of her lips to yours? Read her. Assess her. She will thank you for it.
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Step 5
The key to every facet of every move you make is your sincere connection to her. There are two very good ways to administer manual affection: by sight or by touch. I prefer to feel my way. Take your hand and slowly caress the majora with your index and middle fingers and continue to stroke her pulsating lips up and down.
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Step 6
Slide your middle finger slowly through her vaginal entrance. Feel her inner walls tightly compressed against your finger. Notice her muscles moving your finger into areas where she wants you. By all means, let her! Relax and enjoy it. Don't get overzealous and think you need to get some stroking at this point. Again, you will only turn her off. As she maneuvers your finger from within, apply your thumb to her clitoris and rub it gently.
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Step 7
Exit your finger slowly but not completely. Keep your thumb or even the base of your hand compressed upon her clitoris. Perhaps some added pressure would be nice if she hasn't already applied it for you. As you slide your finger back into her vaginal opening, do so with a bit more assertion. Remember not to force the issue, but a stronger stroke feels exhilarating to her. Begin strokes in repetition slowly but heavily. Without breaking stride, slide your index finger in with your middle for added pleasure.
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Step 8
Now, let's make one other move. While keeping with the pace, rhythm and method of your strokes, curve your finger to the shape of a hook. With the tip of your finger, explore the inner walls just behind the mons pubis. Find a spot and jot at it with your finger heavily and slowly. This will send her into a frenzy.
Comments
faithik2000 said
on 10/22/2009 quiet nice
lillawangel said
on 10/5/2009 megankathleen said it all.. My boyfriend read this and I went "crazy". Thanks!
godivarocks said
on 9/27/2009 I give you 5 stars for all that emphasis on being in-une with your woman and taking your time in pleasuring her. I'll bet you're making someone very happy!
jdiggy69 said
on 4/19/2009 ok, so when ever i finger my girl friend, she gets into it and all, and i know i am doing what she wants, but she never orgasms, because she says that it hurts and needs to stop.do you have any ideas, suggestions, tips, etc?
fthndkvn said
on 11/14/2008 you are right in touch with the in feelings of a women