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Step 1
Teach them right from wrong. The Bible is a perfect place to start. Of course there are situations your child is going to be in where no clear cut answer can be found in the Bible, but lets get the big ones out of the way. Starting here will help you raise your daughter not to steal, commit murder, covet other people's things and generally have a good sense of right from wrong.
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Step 2
Now you need to explain to your child why doing these things is wrong. Do NOT assume that your teenage daughter already knows the answer to these things. Give your teenager examples of what happens when you make the wrong choice and what happens when they make the right one. You can bet that the next time they find themselves in one of these situations they will have your conversation on their minds (even if that doesn't stop them from making a wrong choice).
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Step 3
Make sure you have an open relationship with your daughter and that she knows she can come to you with problems. Let your teenager know that you will help them work through problems by making suggestion or giving advice, but that ultimately they are responsible for making the choice and that they will have to live with the consequences. If they know you are not going to force an answer on them, they will be more willing to share private matters with you.
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Step 4
Remember to have patience. Many teenagers that go through this most vulnerable period mess up a few times. Gently pick them up, dust them off, and help them get back on the right track. Let them see that you are there for them even when things don't go the way you had hoped.
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Step 5
Be supportive of your teenagers career choice and help them work toward their goals. Let's say your child has a passion for animals. You will want to look in to organizations that work with animals and give your child the chance to join. These programs will help your son or daughter choose which part of animal science they wants to pursue beyond high school. If you teenager likes acting, take him or her to plays, call acting coaches and get him or her in to a class, find some local actors who could give your child advice. This is just an example, but you see what I mean. Encourage their interests and help them get on the right path. Don't expect them to grow up and follow whatever career you choose for them.
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Step 6
Finally teach your teenager about life's many dangers. Teach her about Internet safety and warn her about all the wacko's out there. Just because a hot looking teenage boy sends her his picture doesn't mean that it is not a 50 year old fat bald guy on the other end. Teach your teenager about not walking alone outside at night. Teach her to bring mace in her purse and to always be aware of her surroundings. Teenagers think they are invincible, but they must be taught to be a little cautious. This day and age requires it. Giving them this information is a great way to be protecting them when you are not around.
