Step1
NOSE: A woman's nose tells her a ton about you. Do you smell good? Have you taken a bath since Clinton was Prez? Some studies say a woman's sense of smell is in some ways more developed than a man's, so step one here is "Work Her Nose" -- always stay a well showered, well deodorant'ed, clean smelling man. A good quality cologne will help, but put it on to impress -- not to mug her with a smell that arrives 10 minutes before you!
Step2
MOUTH: I'm amazed at the guys who refuse to smile. Either they leer at a woman like a deranged rabbit, or they're lip-wrapping their teeth like those pearly whites are purple and green. A natural and warm SMILE will make a huge first impression, so use it rather than lose it (and her). And remember they don't call them pearly whites for nuttin' -- get your teeth cleaned by a dentist twice a year, and brush those jewels after every meal. They may well spell the difference between you smiling or not smiling on your next date!
Step3
EARS: I've heard it said for years, from both sexes, that a man's voice can often be the thing that sets a woman's seduction meter working overtime. Pull your voice up from your solar plexus, speak clearly and deeply (when you can feel you own rib cage sort of vibrate when you talk, you're there!), and use your voices volume to it's best effect. Learn to whisper clearly, and learn to speak so everyone knows THIS dude has a MAN'S voice!
Step4
SKELETON: A-ten-hun! You don't have to be in the Army or Marines to have good posture, but it helps. Look at your favorite movie stars and athletes, do you see them slouching, shoulders rounded, back curved? Nope; they're standing up straight and proud. Your body is your instrument, Dude, make sure everyone can see you keep your polished, proud, and standing tall.
Step5
EYES: Eye contact is really the ultimate secret sauce in this list. Learn how to make smoldering eye contact with a woman and the pathway to Seduction Success is Secure! Don't just LOOK at the lady -- linger over her eyes with yours. Break eye contact slooooooooowly, as if your eyes just slowed down to a snail's pace. But....don't STARE; look at her eyes deeply, taking time to really see each eye, their color, texture, and depth. It's a winning move -- and most dudes have lame game here.
Step6
> Practice. Polish. And proclaim yourself a Master of the Art of Seduction.
> I put some links below if you want to check-out some more moves. Cya next time!
Comments
Pixie1976 said
on 5/29/2008 This all makes sense.
Elizabethknows said
on 5/29/2008 great article well written.