How to Be Irresistible to Guys

Do you think you need to be beautiful to be irresistible to a man? Not so. The thing that really makes you irresistible is your personality and the way you relate to the opposite sex. Here's how to be irresistible to guys even if you're not Ms. America.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. Exude confidence.
   
   There's nothing a man finds more attractive than a confident woman. Men are intrigued by a woman who believes in herself and isn't afraid to show it. Hold your head up high and don't be afraid to speak your mind. Most men won't be intimidated by this but will find it fascinating.

2. Be a bit mysterious.
   
   Men are quite enamored with women that are elusive and they can't figure out. Don't reveal too much about yourself too quickly. Make the man work a bit to really understand you. Men will find you to be a challenge and with their competitive nature, this can work in your favor if you want to be irresistible to guys.

3. Have an opinion.
   
   When a man asks you where you want to go or what you want to do, tell him instead of allowing him to dictate the evening. Men like women who aren't afraid to take some control.

4. Be versatile.
   
   Don't always take on the role of the traditional woman. Be willing to get dirty and sweaty and play like a man when the occasion calls for it. What man wouldn't be fascinated by a woman who knows how to use power tools?

5. Don't be too obsessed with your appearance.
   
   It's important to look good but don't make it an obsession. If you want to be irresistible to guys, don't bore them talking about what you bought on your last shopping trips, how many pairs of heels you have in your closet, or ask him if you should color your hair.

6. Have a sense of humor.
   
   Be willing to laugh at his jokes and at yourself. Men love a woman with a sense of humor.

7. Be unavailable at times.
   
   Particularly when you first start dating a man, don't make yourself available for a last minute date. Let him know you have a life and interests of your own. You can bet he'll find this fascinating.

Tips & Warnings

• If you want to be irresistible to guys, it's important to be yourself. Don't force yourself to do the previous seven steps just to impress a man. Learn to develop self confidence and faith in yourself and you'll have more success with men.

Resources

• 500 Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know
• How To Attract Men & Keep Them Interested

[AutumnLeavz]

on 5/26/2008 Excellent tips! Thanks for sharing!