How to Communicate With an Alzheimer's Patient

One of the most difficult age-related diseases to deal with, for both patients and caregivers, is Alzheimer's disease. Confusion and the loss of cognitive skills and the ability to communicate can make Alzheimer's frustrating for all involved. However, if you're caring for someone with Alzheimer's, you can make things easier if you learn how to communicate with the patient.

Instructions

1. Speak slowly and clearly. Use your natural tone. Do not shout, since this may be interpreted as being confrontational. Use simple words and short sentences, and pause often to allow the Alzheimer's patient to absorb what is being said.

2. Eliminate distractions. Remove any background noise such as the TV or radio. Trying to speak over background voices may only further confuse an Alzheimer's patient.

3. Stand in front of the patient when speaking to them. Have the patient's full attention before you begin to communicate. Don't start talking from behind or beside the patient. It helps to have eye contact when speaking to an Alzheimer's patient.

4. Use the patient's name often as you are speaking to them. Start each or every other sentence with the patient's name. Always use your name as often as you can to remind the patient who you are. This may help make the Alzheimer's patient more relaxed and attentive.

5. Allow the patient to talk, even if what she is saying is not rational. Try to pick up on how she is trying to communicate. She may use certain phrases or gestures that may be meaningful and help you understand them.

6. Help the Alzheimer's patient to communicate. Take time to find out what he is trying to say. Suggest words when the patient is having a hard time verbalizing what he wants to say. Use visual aids when you can.

7. Give the patient chances to respond. Offer choices. Encourage the patient to participate in the conversation. Do not talk about the patient as if she is not there or treat her as if she cannot hear and speak.

Tips & Warnings

• Smile a lot. Show affection. An Alzheimer's patient will respond much better to kindness than to harsh words or gestures.

• Learn to listen beyond what the patient is saying. Most often, an Alzheimer's patient is not using words correctly. Try to understand what the patient is trying to say rather than focusing on the words he is saying.

• Do not show frustration, anger or impatience--through words or body language--when communicating with an Alzheimer's patient.

• Do not talk down to an Alzheimer's patient. Speak as you would normally speak, don't demean her by using "baby" words or tones.