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Step 1
Think creatively about time, place and setting to create the right mood for a creative kiss. Then stop thinking. Forget the rest of the world during the kiss itself. Make your partner and the kiss itself your sole focus.
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Step 2
Let the anticipation and the chemistry build until neither of you can wait another moment. Deferring a much-desired kiss can exponentially increase the fireworks when your lips finally do connect.
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Step 3
Begin with closed lips and soft, light kisses. Good kissers take their time. Gradually move from prim to primal.
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Step 4
Use your hands. Thread your fingers through his hair, pull his head toward you. Caress his arms, back and shoulders. Focus on areas that are sensual rather than sexual until you are both ready to move onward.
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Step 5
Explore real estate in other neighborhoods. Kiss your partner's eyelids, forehead, cheeks, neck, nose, ears…and other places. Suck your partner's tongue or bottom lip, gently nip his neck and nibble his earlobe. There are many nerve endings to tantalize and the element of surprise enhances the sensations. See how your partner responds and either do more of the same or change direction.
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Step 6
Add flavor to the kiss. Just as great kissers know that there is more to kissing than the lips, they know that there are more senses involved in kissing creatively in addition to touch. Given that kisses involve the mouth, taste is a natural enhancement to kissing creatively. For a sensual and delicious kiss, spread liqueur, honey or chocolate on your partner's lips. The sensation of heat or coolness and the soft brush of your finger on sensitive lips amplify the passion and make the kiss literally sweeter.
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Step 7
Kiss hard and kiss softly. Alternate to see what works best in the moment. Steer clear of ticklish areas, unless that is part of the fun for both kisser and kissee.
Comments
hjtg-me said
on 8/25/2009 hmm pretty good
karthick2010 said
on 9/27/2008 nice.........