How to Eliminate Insecurity in Women
If the women you date let their fears and past problems with men keep you from enjoying a serious relationship, you may feel like you're fighting an uphill battle. Discover ways to combat these insecurities, to assure women that you're not the type of guy to commit the offenses that burned them in the past.
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Admit your mistakes immediately. Be accountable for your actions, even if you know they'll hurt your girl's feelings. If she catches you in a lie, like discovering you've been somewhere you weren't supposed to be, you'll only justify her fear and mistrust.
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Concentrate on her when you're in public or at a party. Seeing you gaze around to check out other women will make her more insecure about her appearance and doubt your trustworthiness.
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Be where you say you're going to be. If you claim to be working late, but someone spots you driving across town, most insecure women will imagine the worst. Being evasive about your activities will only make her more suspicious.
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Listen carefully to what she has to say. Imagine how insignificant she'll feel if she realizes you've tuned her out to listen to a sporting event on television or to read the newspaper.
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Check in when you're not together just to assure your girlfriend that you're thinking of her. If these calls turn into the third degree, however, consider sending quick text messages instead.
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Communicate about every detail of your life until she feels less insecure about you and the relationship. Tell her everything, from when and where you bought a new shirt, to the reason you withdrew $200 from the ATM. This will keep her imagination from running wild.
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what a ridiculous comment mommie21..... seriously breaking up with some one u love because your to lazy or only thinking of your self and takin the selfish way out before even hitting the situation of insecurities... its not a easy topic and no one likes going through it.. think of the guilt the woman wld have after the break up knowing she cause it to happen.. sadly this is a working progress and needs the support of both partners... it might not even be her fault as to y she feels so insecure it cld be because for so long ppl, family loved ones around her have hit her insecurities because they dnt like the partner your with because of his past like sleeping with alot of woman etc etc.... so when u date them your family always remind you of wat your partners history was n what he is always up to when your not around when they keep hitting it over and over so badly it affects tht girl so deeply tht it can also destroy her because of other people being selfish or not liking who u r datng... but when u eliminate those people tht have done tht all she wants is the support from the one person she needs the most its not always the womans fault n y insecurities happen because they can come out at ne moment and go from there n can spiral out of control to the point its the string of your relationship. if u have tried all u can n this woman just gives up and doesn't want to admit her fault then yeh it is best to leave n move on... no one wants to be tied dwn to a insecure person where is the fun in tht but only do tht when u have come to the point nothing can be sorted n u have given it your best shot n tried everything as her partner to make her snap out of it.......
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moomie21
Nov 20, 2010
Who wrote this, this article is so stupid none of these suggestions will actually help do anything but feed into her insecureness. if you really want to help her the best thing you can do for her is break up with her explain to her that nothing you do will show her how much you love her because it's not you and what you're doing or how much you love her or not thats the problem. The problem is how she feels about her self. you can also encourage her to get help and that the problems she's having will never go away no matter how many boyfriends she goes through.
