How to Attract a Co-Worker
If you're attracted to another single co-worker, use your charm and personality to make them feel the same about you. Attract a fellow employee with these strategies that can reveal how much you have in common and how perfect you are for each other.
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Instructions
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Consider the person you're hoping to attract before you turn on the charm. If it's someone who will eventually be your superior or that you'll have to manage, you may want to rethink starting a relationship if it will affect your work performance or reputation within the company.
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Hang out in the break room when you have free time to run into your co-worker as much as possible. Stay within the constraints of the office dress code, but take care to look your best. Break the ice by asking what he did the night before, what he watched on television or what book he's in the middle of reading, for example.
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Take the opportunity to show your co-worker how well you'd get along in a social setting when you go out to lunch together. Point out the things you have in common and discuss your families, hobbies and aspirations rather than work-related issues. Demonstrate your sense of humor and get a little flirtatious when the opportunity presents itself.
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Let her know through the grapevine that you're interested in more than a working relationship. Once you know she's got the message, give her time to evaluate what she wants and if she's willing to date a co-worker.
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Tips & Warnings
Avoid asking the co-worker to join you on a work project in an attempt to get to know her better. Never allow your crush to affect your work performance or put either of you in an uncomfortable position professionally.
