How to Address Children so They Will Listen

Many parents and caregivers face the common problem of getting children to listen. Often, kids simply ignore the commands given to them and continue on with their bad behavior. To connect and discipline children, you need to learn how to address them so that they listen to you.

Instructions

1. Get down to their level. Many children ignore a parent or caregiver because they are talking over them. Squat down and look them in the eye when you want them to listen.

2. Start off by saying her name. One of the easiest ways to grab a child's attention is to call her name in a firm and clear voice. You may have to say her name more than once to get her full attention.

3. Keep it short and simple. Your child will eventually stop listening if you start giving him a long lecture. Try to tell him what you want in as few sentences as possible. You should also use simple language he'll easily understand.

4. Watch your tone. If you start yelling, your child will likely not listen and respond well to the things you're saying. You can emphasize your words, but try not to show any anger.

5. Check if she's listening by making her repeat what you just said. She'll know you expect her to listen when you're talking to her.

Tips & Warnings

• Remember to calm an upset child first before attempting to get him to listen. If he's in an emotional state, he'll get nothing out of the conversation.

• Your children may listen better if presented with a choice rather than a command. This makes them feel more control in their lives.