How to Deal With a Flirtatious Coworker

Most people want to make friendships at work while also maintaining a high level of professionalism. However, you may encounter a coworker who takes things too far. From time to time, you may have to deal with a flirtatious coworker. These tips will help.

Instructions

1. Ignore the flirtatious overtures. If a harmless flirty remark only happens a single time, you can usually let it go. When you don't respond, she'll know you're not interested in her.

2. Let him know you're uncomfortable with the flirty remarks. Usually, if you tell a coworker you don't like the flirtatious behavior, he'll back off.

3. Tell her you have a jealous girlfriend. Most flirty coworkers will decide to leave you alone if they know the behavior bothers your significant other or spouse.

4. Speak to management about his behavior. If he doesn't back off, you need to let your boss know. Laws prohibit sexual harassment while you're at work. You may want to keep a record of any flirty encounters and show this document to your boss.

5. Inquire about a possible transfer. You may still feel uncomfortable around a flirtatious coworker, even after management has addressed the situation. See if you can move to a new department in order to avoid contact.

Tips & Warnings

• Sometimes people have a flirtatious manner naturally. Notice the offender's behavior and see if she tends to flirt with everyone.

• If you're interested in the flirtatious coworker, then you can send out signals as well. Just make sure the flirtation does not affect your job performance.