How to Spot Online Sexual Child Abuse

Sexual child abuse is an extremely serious problem which can traumatize a child for the rest of his life. Online sexual child abuse involves exposing the child to anything over the Internet that involves adult sexuality. If you suspect an online sexual predator is targeting your child, you need to take steps to stop the situation from escalating.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

1. Take note of the child's behavior. Sexually abused children will often know things they should not about sex. A child may also display seductive behavior that's inappropriate for her age group. She may also separate herself from the family and appear withdrawn.
2. Monitor the time the child spends on the Internet. Online sexual child abuse typically takes place in the later evening hours. Your child may use an Internet account belonging to someone else as a way to hide his activities.
3. Look through the child's computer. Check for any inappropriate emails or files containing pornographic materials.
4. Question any strange packages or gifts. Your child may be a victim of online sexual abuse if she receives gifts or mail from a person you don't know.
5. Step in and take control of the situation. If you suspect online sexual abuse, you need to get help right away. Call a child abuse hotline and give as much information as possible about the situation (see Resources).

Tips & Warnings

• You must intervene as soon as you suspect something is wrong. Your child will not only feel sexually traumatized, but develop feelings of shame as a result of the abuse.
• You can protect your child from online sexual abuse by monitoring and limiting time spent on the computer.