Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Begin by lubricating the penis with your saliva. Begin by holding the penis in your hand gently, and spitting (I know, sounds terrible) onto the tip of it. While the saliva runs down the shaft, slowly use your hand to work in the saliva. At the same time, put the tip of the penis in your mouth. Make sure and look up at your partner creating eye contact.
Step2
Once adequate lubrication is achieved, take one hand and gently massage the testicles, at the same time using your mouth on the penis- switch from licking the shaft of the penis up to the tip of the penis, and then putting the penis in your mouth and with a fair amount of pressure from your lips, go up and down. Try and go as deep as you feel comfortable with, using your tongue in a circular motion as well as you can as you bob up and down. You can use your hand to hold the shaft of the penis, giving a gentle handle job at the same time or simply holding the penis in place. Remember, while you're doing this step you will be gently massaging the testicles. Make sure and create eye contact in this step, especially when licking the penis.
Step3
Once you feel your partner coming to a heightened state of arousal, take the hand you are massaging the penis with, and put it around the shaft of the penis if it's not already there. You will know if your partner is in a heightened state of arousal if the penis seems be engorged with blood; veins are highly noticeable and the penis becomes a darker color.
Step4
Now you have your hand around the shaft, position your hand so it's touching your lips. Your lips are around the penis, and your hand is around the penis directly below your mouth- they are connected. Begin bobbing up and down a bit faster, using pressure with your mouth and movement of the tongue. Your hand will be connected to your mouth, remember- As you bob up and down, your hand is as well- but twist your hand gently around the shaft as you go up and down.
Step5
The climax will occur for most men when you utilize the hand twist technique. But, more importantly, the penis is ultra sensitive around the tip- right where the the crease in the bottom of the tip is. This is where your hand will be twisting and turning as you are bobbing up and down. Every once in a while to add lubrication, spit on the tip of the penis without taking your lips completely off the penis.
Step6
Your partner will climax within a few short minutes of utilizing the hand twist blow job technique, especially if you do it in the sensitive spot around the tip. Do it at the speed that your partner enjoys; my experience has been to do it fast!