How to accept living in poverty, contentment in the poor house.

By Lucent

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Although this is hardly a good thing, people need to know that poverty is not synonymous with failure or shame. 36 Million Americans today live in poverty. Since everyone cannot be wealthy, how can you find contentment living under your means?

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

  • Good Company
  • The 3 Necessities
Step1
Keep your head.

Don't let poverty overwhelm you with grief. This condition applies especially to people who were once wealthy, as it can be very challenging to make the adjustment. It is way too easy to look around and be convicted by lack. Don't get depressed. Just accept that at this point in your life, you are going through this stage.
Step2
Be content with just life.

You are alive, be grateful. Be grateful for being able to sleep in a bed, and actually wake up again. Life is not about money, life is about life. Be content by being grateful for your life which gives money meaning, not the other way around.
Step3
Be content with your 3 necessities.

Food, clothing and shelter are infinitely more valuable than riches, mansions and a Porsche. Even though a flawless diamond is more expensive than clean water, living without water will end your life while a diamond does nothing to preserve it.
Step4
Rearrange your value system

People put more value on money in their minds than it is literally worth. Put your happiness at the top of your value totem pole. Adopt an open mindedness that revolves around other things than money.
Step5
Be content with today.

Be grateful that today wasn't the day when "the man" came and cut off your cable, bringing you back to the stone age tube with wire hangers and aluminum foil. Be grateful that today wasn't the day that Rent-A-Center came and repossessed your entire house. Be grateful that today is today, and that you have today to live as a you have it.
Step6
Look forward.

Look toward opportunities that may help you improve your financial situation. Try your best, but don't be overwhelmed if the plan fails, and if it succeeds remember to be content at every level of life.

Tips & Warnings

  • "Happy the man, and happy he alone, he who can call today his own; he who, secure within, can say, tomorrow do thy worst, for I have lived today."- John Dryden

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luv2blog

luv2blog said

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on 6/27/2008 Been there, done that! Good advice.

Pixie1976

Pixie1976 said

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on 6/11/2008 My family survived poverty. There was a time we didn't have a penny so thank you, it's all very true.

leighcamp1

leighcamp1 said

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on 5/26/2008 Good thought!

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