How to Attract Women: Going For A Kiss

In this eHow, you'll learn about triangle gazing, finding the right moment to kiss, and kissing as a sign of escalation and attraction. For more tips, advice and information, please visit our websites at http://www.realsocialdynamics.com and http://www.rsdnation.com

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Lips
• Confidence
• Another person to kiss

1. Here you are, there's a woman you've been talking to, interacting with and now you want to kiss her. It's entirely normal for you to feel that way. So let's go ahead and kiss her.
   
   What do you mean you need the right moment?
   
   Here's step one in going for the kiss: You make your own moment.
   
   Don't wait for some kind of neon sign to light up over your (or her head), don't wait for the heavens to part, if you want to kiss her, and she's not entirely disinterested in you, take advantage of that feeling and do it.
   
   But how?

2. 
    
   In order to kiss her, you're going to have to be close to her.

   Now that you've decided to take action, you need to get close to her. You have some options on how to do this:
   
   A) You can pull her towards you (This is called "The Claw"). Put your arm around her. Where? The waist, the hips, the neck, the shoulder....anywhere you can reasonably reach.
   
   B) You can move towards her yourself. Step closer to her.
   
   To kiss her, you're going to have to be close to her.

3. 
    
   Hold her close, champ. Engage that triangle. Prepare for glory.

   Fantastic! Now the two of you are closer.
   
   We're approaching the moment of the kiss. Remember to stay confident, don't panic, ride that positive feeling. You can do this.
   
   You can now engage in something called triangle gazing, wherein you have 3 points you're looking at:
   
   A. Her one eye
   B. The other other eye
   C. Her lips
   
   Sweeping your field of vision across these three points communicates on a deep, animal level, that "we should kiss". It's one of those deeply-rooted attraction moments, and understanding the last-minute science of it can really make a dramatic difference in the number of people you kiss.
   
   So hold her close and engage that triangle. And move in for the kiss.

4. 
    
   Success! You can now kiss at will.

   Congratulations, now you're kissing. Someone who can take the initiative and kiss (and kiss well) is immensely more attractive than someone who waits for the other person to make the move, or waiting for some unknown external sign to occur before it's "okay".

Tips & Warnings

• Chapstick, Carmex, Lip balm, whatever you call it...if you want to get involved in some kissing, invest in some. No one likes kissing rough coral. Smooth those lips out.
• Confidence is paramount. If you doubt for a second that you can't kiss her, or that she doesn't want to be kissed...it isn't going to happen. You must believe in yourself.
• You can kiss ANYTIME, ANYWHERE. Kisses just aren't for the end of the date, nor are they are a reward for "being good". You're not a dog. They aren't biscuits.
• If she is clearly disinterested, going for the kiss is not always the best solution to make her interested. Use your judgment.

Resources

• Real Social Dynamics
• RSD Nation
• RSD Wiki

[iamageniuster]

on 10/18/2008 Great tips. 5 stars! Thanks for sharing.