How to Impress a Girl Who's Way Out of One's League

Impressing girls is one of the most time-honored traditions for young men. And, the ability to impress a girl who is out of one's league is not an easy task, but it is an art form that can be learned with a bit of patience. Follow these steps to impress a girl who is way out of one's league.

Instructions

1. Understand what a girl wants and then provide it to her. If you are trying to impress a girl who is out of your league, discover what it is that she really likes. If she is interested in music or art, talk to her about those subjects with skill and insight. If she is interested in foreign cultures, learn about them and talk to her about those.

2. Be cool, calm and assured. Girls like guys who seem at ease with themselves. One thing all girls hate is guys who are embarrassingly needy. So, try to remain reserved and calm while showing her your interest. If she is pretty and popular, she will appreciate the fact that you don't run around trying to impress her.

3. Make it your business to casually be near her when she is in social settings. A soft smile and a "hello" go a long way in these circumstances. Avoid running up to her with a lot of hype. Girls like guys who notice them and make eye-contact with them, but who don't fall all over them.

4. Share music, funny stories and cool websites with the girl. One way of cooly showing your interest in a girl who's a bit out of your league is to send her short text messages or e-mails with MP3 downloads of favorite tunes or jokes you've heard. This is an innocuous way of showing interest without appearing obsessive.

5. Focus on looking your best, smelling your best and smiling your best. Research indicates that girls look a lot less at physical appearance than they do at overall male presentation. So, you don't have to look like a movie star to get her attention. Just take the time to be well-groomed and good-smelling. Also, flashing those pearly whites at her frequently goes a long way. In total, being confident is the best way to impress her.

6. Master the art of appearing not to be trying to impress. The surest way to win a girl's attention is to stop being so obsessed with trying to do it. If you will simply relax and be yourself and show her attention without being fake, you stand a much better chance of winning her attention.