How to Raise a Girl Into A Woman--Part Eight

Explaining the fact that her womb should be a safe and nurturing environment for a fetus during pregnancy is a wise thing to do to help her understand the capabilities of her own body. Talking about the responsibility of bringing a child into the world should not be an awkward part of the conversation but should really be the most interesting part of the conversation as your daughter will feel really grown up and special that you shared that with her.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

• A tween daughter aged 11 to 12. Try to catch her either way right before her first period (menarche) or right at her first period.
• A calm personality so she does not feel that her first period is a “crisis” or something to be ashamed of.
• A list of rules and regulations that pertain to you and your family
• Please feel free to RATE THIS ARTICLE

1. womb Like Pastor Rod Parsley once said A mother’s womb should be the safest place in the world.
2. teen girl If you were to go out and kill a man that would be considered murder and you could be put down for that yourself.
3. teenage girl However if you kill a baby it is just called abortion and there will be consequences little girl and I am not talking about a spanking although you will get that after your female area has healed up a litlle bit and you are not so sore.
4. depression I am talking about the 5 wasted years of your life that you will spend being depressed about the baby that you lost.
5. can't concentrate Or how about feeling like you can’t concentrate at home or at school or feeling like you want to die.
6. no drugs If that happens, we may have to put you into a residential treatment center for girls or a runaway house like Huckleberry House called Huck House for short if you live in Columbus, Ohio because we just cannot have you using daddy’s ties to hang yourself or even taking all of our prescription pills out of the medicine cabinet and taking them at once. And while we are on the subject of drugs, stay away from heroin! Heroin can be snorted like cocaine now it is no longer the injectable stuff as in the sixties and seventies. Heroin is deadly and it kills and if you are 18 years of age or over and you refuse to go into treatment, then we will have no choice but to kick you out of this house!
7. no abortion So I will NEVER teach you about abortion. You know what, you just broke my heart. I had big dreams for you and life for you was going to be different. But no heifer, you are GOING to have that baby.
8. young girl You will wear menstrual pads during your period and not use tampons. I don’t want you thinking of inserting a tampon everytime you think sexual thoughts late at night about some boy. So you will use pads until you are a woman and out of this house and on your own.

Tips & Warnings

• Try to have menstrual pads with you and also a pair of her panties and show her how to open up the menstrual pad and wrap the wings around the panties. Then take the pad off and give her a few pads to practice on so she understands the concept. Kids that are in middle school or junior high school need hands on type of education anyway so if you show her how to put pads on in a tactile way then that will be to her benefit. Instead of her worrying about how to take wood shop or electrical shop in school why don't you teach her "period shop" to make it fun for her.
• If you catch your child masturbating and you will just ignore it until the shame that you have built into her causes her to bring up the subject on her own. If she is a young teenager and still impressionable that should work. If she ia a little bit older and wiser she won't either way you will be able to see just how crafty your child really is and go on from there.