How to Stop a Crying Baby

Babies cry for one basic reason: it is the only way they know how to communicate. Deciphering what your baby is trying to communicate to you is another story. These steps will help you stop a crying baby.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

1. Is your baby crying because he is hungry? If your baby is fussing and rooting around with his mouth looking for a breast or bottle, he is probably hungry. If you are not sure, try feeding him. If he takes a few sips and then wriggles away, go on to the next step.

2. Is your baby crying because she has a wet or dirty diaper? This is probably the second most common reason for a baby to cry. Check your baby's diaper and change it if necessary. If the diaper doesn't stop the baby from crying, try the next step.

3. Is your baby crying because he is too hot? New parents feeling cautious and protective tend to overbundle babies. If your baby is wearing more layers than you, try removing a layer, or extras such as his cap, mitts or booties. On the other hand, if your house is really chilly, make sure he is not crying because he is too cold. If temperature is not the reason your baby is crying, it's on to the next step.

4. Is your baby crying because she's uncomfortable or ill? Check to make sure your baby is not lying on anything and her clothing is not too snug or turned funny (sideways pajama bottoms would make you cranky, too!). Does your baby prefer to be swaddled, but she's come unwrapped? If everything checks out, look for signs of illness or teething. Does she have a temperature? Does she bear down on your finger with her gums? Does she have a runny nose, cough or other symptoms? Some baby Tylenol and a call to the doctor might be in order. But if she seems fine, consider the next step.

5. Is your baby crying because he is overstimulated? If your baby has spent a long period of time in a new or different environment or around a lot of people, lights, or noise, he may be crying because he needs a break. Remember, this world is brand new to your baby so give him time to take it all in. If your surroundings have not changed, on to the next step.

6. Is your baby crying because she is colicky or gassy, or just tired? If your baby ate recently, see if she needs to burp. Sometimes one good belch is all it takes. If you suspect colic, there are many safe home remedies you can try. White noise, the sound of a fan, a washing machine or a radio dial set to static, sooths some colicky babies. Warm mint tea is another colic remedy many moms report successful. If your baby is tired, she might cry as well. Try sitting with her in a dark, quiet room, holding her and rocking her. If this doesn't work either, go immediately to the next step.

7. Ask for help. Let your spouse hold the baby for a while. Call Grandma to come and work her charms. Request assistance from your dear next door neighbor. If you are a sleep-deprived parent and your baby just won't stop crying, you can feel overwhelmed. And guess what? Your baby might sense your frustration and stress and cry. Get off the merry-go-round and take a short, well-deserved break.

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on 9/3/2008 Good questions to ask, and good info for any new mother!