How to Attract Women: Meeting People During The Day

In this article, we'll discuss Abundance as well as the ability to meet and talk to women outside of the bar or club environment. You may be surprised as to how easy this is.

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Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Women
• A Location To Meet Women
• Confidence
• Conversation Skills

1. Notice how women are around? This is called "Abundance" or "The Abundance Mentality". Women do not just sprout up at clubs and bars. You'll find them at the gym, at the grocery store, at the bookstore, getting coffee...pretty much all the same places you go. This is to your advantage, as understanding this idea means you don't go out of your way to meet women. No lengthy trips anywhere, no special access needed.

2. So now you need to choose what's called a "venue". A venue is just a location, a place where you choose to talk to women. Again, because women are everywhere (abundance!), our choice of venue is pretty broad. In choosing a venue look for the following:
   1) A place you know, a place you're comfortable with
   2) A place that offers something you can talk about. (Bookstores have books, gyms have equipment, grocery stores have food)
   
   Have one in mind? Great, let's move on.

3. Now at your venue, let's find a woman, approach her and start a conversation. Because we've chosen a place that offers something to talk about, you've provided yourself a way to start conversation. In the bookstore, talk about a particular book relevant to the section she's standing in. In the grocery store, mention what food she has in her cart or basket. Talk about what's in front of you, and the pressure to talk greatly reduces. (This is called situational observation, for those people looking for nerdy pickup science)

Tips & Warnings

• Remember: This is supposed to be fun and enjoyable.
• Remember: Over the course of this coversation, whether it's ten seconds or ten hours long, be comfortable. Relax, don't feel forced.
• Remember: Smile
• You're going to encounter a wide range of responses doing this -- understand that what you're doing (talking to people outside of the normally done locations and times) is often seen as "weird", "sleazy" "strange" or "annoying". Do not sweat these labels, it's just a conversation.
• Remember: If it doesn't work out, abundance! Women can be found everywhere.

Resources

• Real Socal Dynamics
• RSD Nation
• RSD Wiki

[iamageniuster]

on 10/18/2008 Great tips. 5 stars! Thanks for sharing.

[jm5708]

on 5/13/2008 This is really great advice. Just say "Hi!" and start talking, no complicated steps necessary.