Things You'll Need:
- Open MInd
- Will to attract
- Change of mindset
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Step 1
First realize that women are mostly attracted to things that are interesting to them. Looks can get you so far but who you are and what you say can take you even further.
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Step 2
When you first walk up to a girl, never be ordinary or predictable. Instead of saying "Hey, how are you doing?" say, "Hey, what do you think of...." For example, if your at an event where you can ask her about it. Its better to ask her a question where she can voice her opinion rather than just small talk. Stay away from small talk. Ask her questions that will require full answers. Stay away from open ended questions.
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Step 3
When your asking questions, be interested and confident. Remember to keep good eye contact. If you feel an awkward silence about to happen, compliment an article of her clothing, and ask, "Tell me about this."
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Step 4
If you can talk to her for about ten to twenty five minutes, you can finally start to figure out if she is interested in you or not. Do not ask for the phone number too soon, as it will seem too desperate. Never give her the impression that you like her in the way that your attracted to her. Give her attention that your talking to meet her and ask her questions.
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Step 5
If you want to see if she is really interested, you can perform a trick to see if she is. Tell her to put her palms out so you can lay your hands on her palms. After your hands lay on her palms, lightly push down on them. If she lets you push her hands down, she is interested and trusts you. If she holds her hands at the same position, she is holding back and not feeling you. It's a simple trick that can tell you everything.
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Step 6
Always look at her eyes and the way she moves when she talks to you. If her eyes move away from you, she is getting disinterested. If she runs her hands through her hair, she is intrigued. Look out for folded arms, cause that means she is uncomfortable.
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Step 7
You want to ask for her phone number about 20 to 25 minutes in the conversation. Make a good impression before you ask her the number.
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Step 8
Remember be confident and relax around an attractive girl. If you can treat them like a girl that you have been talking to for a long time, you can make her believe that she can trust you. If she can build trust for you, you get closer to her as time goes on. Once you feel you have her trust, make the move to be her boyfriend or what ever you want to be.












Comments
REGGIE55 said
on 5/7/2008 Good article I have had trouble getting dates so I will try your ideas... Thanks will keep you up dated...