How to Attract Women: Meeting People On The Street

In this article, we'll discuss one of the easiest places to meet women, out on the street. You'll learn effective strategies for having a conversation and that just because people are walking and not in a club or bar dancing, doesn't mean you can't talk to them and say hello. For more information on this or anything else covered in our articles, please visit http://www.rsdnation.com

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• A street, preferably one with people on it
• A smile
• Conversation skills
• Confidence
• A woman

1. 
    
   This street is crowded, but you can totally have a conversation here.

   So, you're just walking around on the street. It's crowded. Lots of people. Why not use this time and location to meet people?

2. Let's find a woman. There's one. Go say hello.
   
   What do you mean you're worried if she'll stop and talk to you?
   
   Of course she will.
   
   How do I know this? Because you're going to create a bubble around her. Now, go talk to her.

3. 
    
   It's just you and her talking. What else matters? Oh right, nothing.

   What's this about a bubble? Don't worry. You're going to talk to her comfortably, relaxed and cool, and have a pretty dynamic conversation. Make eye contact with her. Smile. Hold that eye contact with her as you approach.

4. Awesome! Now that the two of you are talking, do your best to not get distracted by the billions of things going on. Remember, you stopped to talk to her, not listen to the cars driving by, the other people on the street or any other sounds.
   
   This is that bubble. Just you and her, having a conversation, as if you were talking next to each other on your couch at home. Block out those other sounds. Focus on her. Focus on what she's saying. Hold that eye contact. Enjoy the conversation.

5. Don't be afraid to escalate this conversation. Talk to her, get to know her. Exchange numbers and contact information. See if she wants to meet you somewhere else. Do what feels right.

Tips & Warnings

• In a world where people have iPods and phones to their ears constantly, it may be difficult to get people to stop. Keep trying. Stay relaxed, you'll find them.
• The key to getting anyone to stop, even for a few seconds is dominance. Show them that you're not going to be swayed and you're not timid. They'll stop, even if just to tell you how busy they are.
• Be confident! This isn't rocket science. No one's going to die if you mess up. It's just a conversation. You can do this!
• If your confidence waivers, you'll come across as creepy. No one wants to talk to a creepy guy.
• This takes practice. Go get some.

Resources

• RSD Nation
• Real Social Dynamics
• RSD Wiki

[iamageniuster]

on 10/18/2008 Great tips. 5 stars! Thanks for sharing.

[jm5708]

on 5/13/2008 It's so simple. Walk up, start talking, and escalate the conversation. Why do we try to make it so hard on ourselves, this is easy, and FUN. Great article.