Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Things You’ll Need:
- A street, preferably one with people on it
- A smile
- Conversation skills
- Confidence
- A woman
Step1
This street is crowded, but you can totally have a conversation here.
So, you're just walking around on the street. It's crowded. Lots of people. Why not use this time and location to meet people?
Step2
Let's find a woman. There's one. Go say hello.
What do you mean you're worried if she'll stop and talk to you?
Of course she will.
How do I know this? Because you're going to create a bubble around her. Now, go talk to her.
Step3
It's just you and her talking. What else matters? Oh right, nothing.
What's this about a bubble? Don't worry. You're going to talk to her comfortably, relaxed and cool, and have a pretty dynamic conversation. Make eye contact with her. Smile. Hold that eye contact with her as you approach.
Step4
Awesome! Now that the two of you are talking, do your best to not get distracted by the billions of things going on. Remember, you stopped to talk to her, not listen to the cars driving by, the other people on the street or any other sounds.
This is that bubble. Just you and her, having a conversation, as if you were talking next to each other on your couch at home. Block out those other sounds. Focus on her. Focus on what she's saying. Hold that eye contact. Enjoy the conversation.
Step5
Don't be afraid to escalate this conversation. Talk to her, get to know her. Exchange numbers and contact information. See if she wants to meet you somewhere else. Do what feels right.
Comments
jm5708 said
on 5/13/2008 It's so simple. Walk up, start talking, and escalate the conversation. Why do we try to make it so hard on ourselves, this is easy, and FUN. Great article.