LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP: always give time for careful evaluation to every potential friend. keep it casual for at least a month
Step2
PAY ATTENTION TO WARNING SIGNS: It takes a little as 2 minutes to read in between the line of a chracter trait as the sayings go. First impression last. what strikes you most in the first 2 minutes of your potentially new acquaintance
Step3
BE CURIOUS:Curiousity doesn't always kill the cat. Take time to know who is impotant what is impotant to your new acquaintance.
Step4
WHERE ARE WE GOING?:Since every relationship is about influencing and being influenced. Find out exactly where the new guy/girl is heading. The shocks of hititing the rocks can be dealth with before taking the journey to nowhere
Step5
ONE STEP AT A TIME, NO SHORT CUTS: Speed get you going faster but also could see you to final stop quicker. A sky scraper grows downward before rising upwards. Shun a friend that advcocates short cuts.
Step6
BE FLEXIBLE: Bend but don't break. As you relate with the new you might need to bend but dont break. Bending tests your resillience whereas breaking deforms, twists, damages and ouch!... hurts
Step7
THE TABOO OF FRIENDS FOR LIFE: values changes, personality improves or down-plunges but true friendship lasts for life. Time is a true test of true friends. They never quit.
Tips & Warnings
Keep a positive front look out for the best in others
Keep the question lines open
Don't turn the blind eye- it may makes all the difference between life and death
Comments
akintunde2008 said
on 5/6/2008 this will help us in making a consious decision of choice. friendships doesn't just happen by chance. that why we 'make' a friend.