How to accept your parents getting a divorce

Over 50% of U.S. marriages end in divorce, so what of the children produced by these broken families? Even young adults can feel a sense of bitterness at the news of their parents divorcing. Here are a few tips to make period go by easier.

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

• Support from friends
• Impartiality

1. Never ever take sides. You may feel obligated to stand up for one parent over the other because you feel that they were wronged, bad idea. It's best to stay clear of any conversation that will place you in a position to choose who's side you are on. Doing this will prevent the alienation of the other parent and their side of the family.
2. Make them talk. Do not get stuck in the unfulfilling role of the message delivery person. Your parents are adults, and even though at times adults are known to act more like children during a divorce, it's up to you to remove yourself from this situation, thus removing the possibility of becoming your parents' free telegram service.
3. Be empathetic. Give ear to your parents' complaints, be empathetic, but do not take a stance the issue yourself (empathetic example: "It's very sad that you feel that way about him"). Parents may act childish during this stage, and as a result they may incorporate you into their 'hijinks' in order to hurt each other. Stay clear, let them talk and empathize.

Tips & Warnings

• If you have parents divorcing over physical or mental abuse, you may have to adjust these steps to the situation.