How to Turn On a Girl

Love is in the air.

They are beautiful, sexy and mysterious. They are also confusing, and trying to get a girl to do anything you want is difficult. Whether it's how she feels, how much she weighs or how someone spoke to her at work, a seemingly endless amount of subjects can block a girl's attitude from excitement and arousal. Trying to get a girl excited and turned on can be unpredictable at times, but it doesn't have to be impossible.

Instructions

1. Get her to relax. A woman is an emotional creature so if she's uptight or upset, forget about getting her turned on. Give her a back rub and set the mood quickly by including touch. Playing music, grabbing drinks and setting the lighting low are all actions that can get your girl to release any tension and slip into something more emotionally comfortable.

2. Do something for her sincerely. Whether it's taking out the garbage, washing the dishes or trying a new food she likes, do something for her sincerely and with honesty. Women can smell insincerity a mile away so be nice and do something because it's right for her, not to get her in the mood.

3. Listen to her. Men are turned on by what they see; women are turned on by what they hear. Talk with her and listen to what she has to say about her day, her job, school and other parts of her life. The more you invest in her by listening, the more you get through those barriers of tension she may be carrying around. Fewer barriers emotionally equals fewer barriers toward getting hot.

4. Touch her in the right places and in the right way. Instead of going right for the obvious spots, start touching her in places that go unnoticed. Rub her shoulders. Make love to her hand with soft touches and strong touches. Stroke her hair. Massage the back of her knees, her elbows and even the nape of her neck. If you can get her excited in these places, the other places will follow.

5. Place her in a sexy environment. Get her in an environment that is sexy, and her mood should follow soon. Go for drinks, and the dim lighting and other couples turning each other on will give her proper motivation. A setting sun or a starlit night sky and the right amount of privacy also suggest sexiness.

6. Feed her the right foods. Women can also be aroused by food. Pay special attention to what she likes and what she considers "taboo" food, and that's a helpful ticket to turning her on. Just about every girl (unless she's allergic) loves chocolate so use that to accent arousal.

7. Want her and make it known. A girl will enjoy the hunt and the pursuit. If she feels wanted, it will definitely increase her arousal. Let her know you want her, both verbally and by touching her. You might even take her to a place (such as a bar or nightclub) where she can also feel sexy by being viewed by others. Girls like to be wanted, even if it's by you and by others.

Tips & Warnings

• Take it slow; women take longer to become aroused than men do.

• If you rush her, you may not get the results you were hoping for.

Resources

• Read this Article in Spanish